Author: No Bullies Allowed

  • Maxwell Bentley, Atlanta GA

    Maxwell Bentley, Atlanta GA

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    From Being Bullied to an Entrepreneur

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  • Coach Becca & Her Son, California

    Coach Becca & Her Son, California

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    A Warrior Mom & Son, California

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    When my son faced his first bully, I listened to him tell me about the situation and his feelings, and I told him this: “when that kid says things to you, look him in the face, say, ‘whatever,’ and walk away. You stay in your power, but don’t give him a reason to keep going—sadly, bullies feed off your fear to feel powerful.”

    I also told him: “there are many people in this world who only feel good by bringing others down, and maybe it’s because they were treated this way at home, but it’s 100% about their insecurities. Your ability to feel good AND to be kind is such a special power in this world—it’s more powerful and strong than you realize. Bullies see it and that’s why they try to take it for themselves—but they never will. So your job is to protect it, own it, and never let anyone think they can take it from you. Because they can’t. Your job is to realize your power.

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  • September 11th: Anonymous, NYC

    September 11th: Anonymous, NYC

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    September 11th: Anonymous, New York

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][image_with_animation image_url=”1504″ alignment=”” animation=”None” border_radius=”15px” box_shadow=”medium_depth” max_width=”100%”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]September 11, 2001 the day my life and many Muslim lives changed. New York had been hit with a terrorist attack and living in New York City where it happened, people were affected the most. Though, one of the groups most affected were Muslims.

    We were blamed for something that we didn’t do and ever since that day, I would get bullied every day. I was in the 4th grade when it started. I would keep getting called a terrorist and told stuff like “Is Osama your uncle?” and these were just a few of the things that people would say. Surprisingly, these were kids saying this, so it’s obvious they were being influenced by their parents!

    I was too young and scared to tell anyone. Because when you’re kid you don’t know right from wrong, and you think that you did something wrong instead. Though, the one who was in the wrong are the people who think it’s okay to bully people for their religious beliefs!

    I still remember it like it was yesterday. I remember how nobody did anything to help me including the teachers. They would see this happening to me and they would never do anything about it, they would ignore it! In fact if I responded back, I would get in trouble by the teachers. I got bullied up until high school and it wasn’t only about being called a terrorist, but being one of the few Middle Easterns in my schools, I would get bullied for my Middle Eastern features!

    I’m telling my story and hoping it would help anyone who went through this and anyone who is still going through it! Just know you aren’t alone and never be ashamed of who you are![/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][nectar_btn size=”medium” open_new_tab=”true” button_style=”regular” button_color_2=”extra-color-gradient-2″ icon_family=”default_arrow” url=”https://give.nobulliesallowed.org/general-donation/” text=”Make a Donation”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_raw_html]JTNDZGl2JTIwY2xhc3MlM0QlMjJmYi1jb21tZW50cyUyMiUyMGRhdGEtaHJlZiUzRCUyMmh0dHBzJTNBJTJGJTJGbm9idWxsaWVzYWxsb3dlZC5vcmclMkZzaGFyZS15b3VyLXN0b3J5JTJGc2VwdGVtYmVyLTExdGgtYW5vbnltb3VzLW55YyUyRiUyMiUyMGRhdGEtd2lkdGglM0QlMjIxMDAwJTIyJTIwZGF0YS1udW1wb3N0cyUzRCUyMjUwJTIyJTNFJTNDJTJGZGl2JTNF[/vc_raw_html][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_raw_js]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[/vc_raw_js][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • Instagram’s new anti-bullying feature

    Instagram’s new anti-bullying feature

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    Instagram’s New Anti-Bullying Feature

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]Two major changes are coming to Instagram meant to address bullying.

    The social platform is rolling out two new features, including one powered by artificial intelligence that notifies people when their comment may be considered offensive before it’s even posted.

    “While identifying and removing bullying on Instagram is important, we also need to empower our community to stand up to this kind of behavior,” Adam Mosseri, Head of Instagram said in a post. “It’s our responsibility to create a safe environment on 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line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]The first new feature forces users to take a beat before posting something offensive.

    Here’s how it works: If someone’s about to post a mean comment – for example “you are so ugly and stupid,” they will get an instant in-app pop-up notification asking, “are you sure you want to post this?”

    Powered by AI, Mosseri writes, “this intervention gives people a chance to reflect and undo their comment and prevents the recipient from receiving the harmful comment notification.”

    Instagram says they’ve run early tests of this new feature and found at least some people delete those negative comments, instead of posting.

    The second new feature called “Restrict.”

    It’s meant to help users quietly block bullies who they might be reluctant to unfollow or report because of the real life consequences.

    Once you “restrict” someone, comments on your posts from that person will only be visible to that person. They also won’t be able to see when you’re active on Instagram or when you’ve read their direct messages.

    Instagram realizes bullying can be a complex issue.

    A toxic user experience can also drive brands away from their platform, not just everyday users. In the long run, not addressing these sort of issues across the ever-growing Instagram community can have not only a detrimental but also a financial impact on the overall operation.
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  • Big for Something: Melvin, Oregon

    Big for Something: Melvin, Oregon

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    Big for Something: Melvin, Oregon

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][image_with_animation image_url=”1466″ alignment=”” animation=”None” border_radius=”15px” box_shadow=”medium_depth” max_width=”100%”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]As a child I was filled with wonder and excitement about all the things young kids usually are excited about in SE Texas. Football, winning on Friday nights and food after football games away from home.

    Unfortunately, as a smart kid that looked athletic, but didn’t have a strong ambition toward athletic achievement, I was constantly disappointed by my peers, teachers and coaches.

    “Big for Nothing” is what the coaches called me. And they were right. My father could jump out of a gym and my brother was a 3-year varsity fullback. My brother’s nickname in high school was “Big Young.” Unlike me, he was big for something. For a sensitive kid who had a heart for poetry, reading books and science projects for fun, I wasn’t necessarily the proto-typical chip of the old block of my well-known relatives. I was like a fragment eventually found somewhere over there. Where I am from is the self-proclaimed football capital of the world. Because I wasn’t the typical black youth of my day, my peers and unfortunately, my superiors often met me with the eye of speculation and ridicule. The unfortunate truth is I could give hundreds of stories about being bullied and its impact on me but there’s one in particular that stands out as a marker for when I knew that I needed to figure out a way to take control.

    I was in the bathroom after recess my seventh-grade year. I was at the urinal when I heard footsteps behind me. The footsteps got closer. Then a whisper of something mumbled by the figure behind me. I turned my head as far as I could to see what or who was behind me when it happened. I was called a “Punk Bi$*h”, and then bam. I was struck with a fist to my jaw. I don’t know how I fell, but I do remember how I woke up. On the filthy floor of a middle school bathroom with my pants halfway down my legs and my private parts exposed laying in my own urine. Eventually by luck a good friend with impeccable timing found me and helped me up. I put myself together and went to class. I sat in class dizzy, probably concussed and definitely confused. I felt ashamed, embarrassed, and incapable of communicating this pain. I had few resources to help navigate my emotions. I didn’t trust the teachers or counselors at the school to create a safe place, and I resented the students, the school and the town I was from.

    It has been almost 30 years since that incident. I would have never guessed it then but turns out in the real world there is a market for a poetry lover who reads a lot and likes science and theater. There was no “Glee” in this generation. For me the use of these talents has led to a career in leadership. I have traveled the world and helped many along their path to success. I have received numerous awards for no other reason but for being “me.” I have been married for 18 years, have three children, two of which are close to the same age as I was when this horrible situation happened. I tell them the same thing I am going to tell you now.

    There will be a time in your life when you will find yourself figuratively on the floor of a public bathroom with your paints down in your own urine. You will wake up, and for a moment not even know how you got there. You will eventually remember and if you are lucky, someone will be there to reach out a hand to help you up. Grab it. Don’t stop there. Use the incident to communicate and help the person hurting more than you. The bully, the person, the anything. The truth is I have found myself on that figurative floor several times since that day. The difference is I know now what I didn’t know then.

    Bullying creates the wall that disallows you from seeing your solution as it is. The emotional pain takes the place of hope and replaces it with despair. The despair could eventually lead to many things that could destroy you. If you understand that people who hurt you are hurting, it’s much easier to get up.

    Teachers bully, kids bully, teams bully. Even parents unknowingly bully their children separating them from a child’s ability to take the first step towards healing.

    I was not “Big for Nothing.” My power wasn’t in my biceps, or height. It was in my mind and in my heart, which is the hardest for people in pain to see. I was ‘Big for Something.” Something I could have never known in the 7th grade. I am thankful for all the help along the way that allowed me to remove the wall of despair for a future of possibilities.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][nectar_btn size=”medium” open_new_tab=”true” button_style=”regular” button_color_2=”extra-color-gradient-2″ icon_family=”default_arrow” url=”https://give.nobulliesallowed.org/general-donation/” text=”Make a Donation”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_raw_html]JTNDZGl2JTIwY2xhc3MlM0QlMjJmYi1jb21tZW50cyUyMiUyMGRhdGEtaHJlZiUzRCUyMmh0dHBzJTNBJTJGJTJGbm9idWxsaWVzYWxsb3dlZC5vcmclMkZibG9ncyUyRm1lbHZpbi1vcmVnb24lMkYlMjIlMjBkYXRhLXdpZHRoJTNEJTIyMTAwMCUyMiUyMGRhdGEtbnVtcG9zdHMlM0QlMjI1MCUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRmRpdiUzRQ==[/vc_raw_html][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_raw_js]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[/vc_raw_js][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • Bullying and Substance Abuse: Who It Affects and Why

    Bullying and Substance Abuse: Who It Affects and Why

    [vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”2/3″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][image_with_animation image_url=”961″ alignment=”” animation=”None” border_radius=”10px” box_shadow=”small_depth” max_width=”100%”][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/3″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column_text]Source: DrugRehab.com[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column_text]

    Bullying and Substance Abuse: Who It Affects and Why

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]Bullying transcends childish acts such as teasing, rough housing or joking around. It can be a dangerous activity with devastating physical and psychological effects. It’s a prominent risk factor for substance abuse and addiction, but the person being bullied isn’t the only one at risk.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]We’re born into a world that rewards winners, but some people learn that they can rise to the top without labor. Those people knock others down to boost themselves up. They lie, cheat or steal credit for the ideas of others. Or they criticize, mock or degrade others to make themselves look better. People who repeatedly take advantage of power to intentionally harm others are bullies.

    Bullying is defined as repeated, undesired and aggressive behavior that involves an inequality of power. Power can be physical, social or psychological.

    The three criteria that researchers use to identify bullying behavior are:

    1. Intentionally aggressive behavior
    2. Repetition
    3. Power imbalance

    Laura Crothers, a nationally recognized expert on childhood bullying and a psychology professor at Duquesne University, told DrugRehab.com that bullying often occurs without provocation.

    “It’s not reactive or it’s not fighting back when someone else has been aggressive,” Crothers said. “There is a power differential between perpetrators and victims. The power can be physical. It can be social. It could be intellectual. It could be socio-economic or racial. The bully has more power than the victim, and the behaviors tend to be repeated over time.”

    The prevalence of bullying causes many people to believe that it’s a rite of passage. Adults often justify the behavior as boys being boys, harmless gossip or immature behavior. But the behavior isn’t harmless.

    “Children can’t solve bullying themselves,” Crother said. “That’s probably one of the biggest mistakes that adults make, is thinking that kids can figure it out themselves or they’ll get through it on their own. We haven’t seen that to be the case in the literature.”

    Bullying can lead to physical violence, mental health problems and other life difficulties. It’s also a risk factor for substance abuse. It’s difficult to find a direct link between bullying and substance abuse because both behaviors are relatively common. More than 17 percent of children have tried an illicit drug by eighth grade, and nearly 50 percent have used an illicit drug by their senior year of high school, according to the 2016 Monitoring the Future survey. Rates of childhood alcohol use are even higher.

    Comparatively, about 20 percent of high schoolers in the United States say they have been bullied on school property in the past year, and more than 15 percent say they have been bullied electronically in the past year, according to results from the CDC’s 2015 Youth Risk Behavior Survey.

    “What we know is there seems to be a relationship between bullying and substance abuse, but we don’t understand the direction or the causality,” Crothers said. “It isn’t known which causes the other.”[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_raw_js]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[/vc_raw_js][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]Percent of students who reported being bullied at school, on a school bus or on the way to and from school:

    Bullied at school: 21.5%
    Made fun of or insulted: 13.6%
    Subject of rumors: 13.2%
    Pushed, shoved, spit on or tripped: 6.0%
    Excluded from activities: 4.5%
    Threatened with harm: 3.9%
    Forced to do things they didn’t want to do: 2.2%
    Property destroyed: 1.6%

    Source: National Center for Education Statistics, 2013[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    The Relationship Between Bullying And Drug Use

    Numerous studies have established a relationship between bullying, psychological health and substance abuse. Research isn’t conclusive, and bullying doesn’t affect everyone the same way. But it’s a major health problem with serious consequences.

    “In terms of perpetrators, bullies themselves, there seems to be a connection between engaging in bullying and using or abusing substances,” Crothers said. “The idea is that children who are aggressive at a young age tend to seek out peers who are also non-rule governed.

    “That peer environment that they seek out seems to reinforce the child’s aggression and the propensity to engage in other deviant behaviors, which may include substance use and then potentially using multiple drugs in late adolescence and into adulthood.”

    It is less clear whether being bullied causes people to engage in substance abuse. One theory suggests that alcohol and other drug use is a way to cope with bullying victimization. Victims might use drugs to self-medicate symptoms of depression or anxiety that developed after being bullied. Bullies may use drugs to cope with the same mental health issues that caused them to act out.

    “In terms of perpetrators, bullies themselves, there seems to be a connection between engaging in bullying and using or abusing substances. The idea is that children who are aggressive at a young age tend to seek out peers who are also non-rule governed.“

    — LAURA CROTHERS

    Studies also support the notion that aggressive behavior and substance use co-occur because each behavior is an attempt to cope with peer rejection. An extensive review of literature published in 2010 in School Psychology Quarterly supported the notion that risk factors for bullying and substance abuse overlap. Risk factors for bullying and bully victimization, such as social difficulties, negative community influences and academic struggles, are also risk factors for substance abuse.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Who Does Bullying Effect?

    Bullying is a global problem that affects people of all ages, ethnicities, religions and cultural backgrounds. Surveys report that between 20 and 30 percent of American students are involved in bullying, either as bullies or victims, but the number of students who experience negative side effects of bullying behavior is less clear.

    Consistently, boys are more likely than girls to bully or be bullied. But some research indicates that girls are more likely to experience symptoms of depression and are more vulnerable to substance abuse than boys. Researchers suspect that girls may be more vulnerable to mental health side effects because girls are more likely to engage in psychological bullying than boys.

    A large-scale 2007 study of middle and high school students in a large metropolitan area found that bullying behavior differed by ethnicity. Native American and African-American students were more likely than white and Hispanic students to bully other students, and Asian students were the least likely to bully. However, all of the aforementioned ethnicities were bullied at similar rates except Native Americans, who were much more likely to be bullied.

    Experts often categorize people affected by bullying as bullies, bully-victims, victims or bystanders.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][nectar_btn size=”medium” button_style=”regular” button_color_2=”Accent-Color” icon_family=”default_arrow” url=”https://www.drugrehab.com/guides/bullying/” text=”Continue Reading”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” top_padding=”2%” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column_text]Source: DrugRehab.com[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”35″][vc_column_text]What Kids Can Do | Bullying Blogs | Bullying Resources | No Bullies Allowed Initiative | Anti Bullying | Bullying Prevention Association of America[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • Warning Signs for Bullying

    Warning Signs for Bullying

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    Warning Signs for Bullying

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]There are many warning signs that may indicate that someone is affected by bullying — either being bullied or bullying others. Recognizing the warning signs is an important first step in taking action against bullying. Not all children who are bullied or are bullying others ask for help.

    It is important to talk with children who show signs of being bullied or bullying others. These warning signs can also point to other issues or problems, such as depression or substance abuse. Talking to the child can help identify the root of the problem.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Signs a Child Is Being Bullied

    Look for changes in the child. However, be aware that not all children who are bullied exhibit warning signs.

    Some signs that may point to a bullying problem are:

    • Unexplainable injuries
    • Lost or destroyed clothing, books, electronics, or jewelry
    • Frequent headaches or stomach aches, feeling sick or faking illness
    • Changes in eating habits, like suddenly skipping meals or binge eating. Kids may come home from school hungry because they did not eat lunch.
    • Difficulty sleeping or frequent nightmares
    • Declining grades, loss of interest in schoolwork, or not wanting to go to school
    • Sudden loss of friends or avoidance of social situations
    • Feelings of helplessness or decreased self esteem
    • Self-destructive behaviors such as running away from home, harming themselves, or talking about suicide

    If you know someone in serious distress or danger, don’t ignore the problem. Get help right away.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Signs a Child is Bullying Others

    Kids may be bullying others if they:

    • Get into physical or verbal fights
    • Have friends who bully others
    • Are increasingly aggressive
    • Get sent to the principal’s office or to detention frequently
    • Have unexplained extra money or new belongings
    • Blame others for their problems
    • Don’t accept responsibility for their actions
    • Are competitive and worry about their reputation or popularity

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    Why don’t kids ask for help?

    Statistics from the 2012 Indicators of School Crime and Safety – PDF show that an adult was notified in less than half (40%) of bullying incidents. Kids don’t tell adults for many reasons:

    • Bullying can make a child feel helpless. Kids may want to handle it on their own to feel in control again. They may fear being seen as weak or a tattletale.
    • Kids may fear backlash from the kid who bullied them.
    • Bullying can be a humiliating experience. Kids may not want adults to know what is being said about them, whether true or false. They may also fear that adults will judge them or punish them for being weak.
    • Kids who are bullied may already feel socially isolated. They may feel like no one cares or could understand.
    • Kids may fear being rejected by their peers. Friends can help protect kids from bullying, and kids can fear losing this support.

    [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” top_padding=”2%” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]Source: StopBullying.gov[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”35″][vc_column_text]Warning Signs for Bullying | Bullying Blogs | Bullying Resources | No Bullies Allowed Initiative | Anti Bullying | Bullying Prevention Association of America[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_raw_js]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[/vc_raw_js][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • Who Is at Risk

    Who Is at Risk

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    Who Is at Risk

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]No single factor puts a child at risk of being bullied or bullying others. Bullying can happen anywhere—cities, suburbs, or rural towns. Depending on the environment, some groups—such as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning (LGBTQ) youth, youth with disabilities, and socially isolated youth—may be at an increased risk of being bullied. [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Children at Risk of Being Bullied

    Generally, children who are bullied have one or more of the following risk factors:

    • Are perceived as different from their peers, such as being overweight or underweight, wearing glasses or different clothing, being new to a school, or being unable to afford what kids consider “cool”
    • Are perceived as weak or unable to defend themselves
    • Are depressed, anxious, or have low self esteem
    • Are less popular than others and have few friends
    • Do not get along well with others, seen as annoying or provoking, or antagonize others for attention

    However, even if a child has these risk factors, it doesn’t mean that they will be bullied.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Children More Likely to Bully Others

    There are two types of kids who are more likely to bully others:

    • Some are well-connected to their peers, have social power, are overly concerned about their popularity, and like to dominate or be in charge of others.
    • Others are more isolated from their peers and may be depressed or anxious, have low self esteem, be less involved in school, be easily pressured by peers, or not identify with the emotions or feelings of others.

    Children who have these factors are also more likely to bully others;

    • Are aggressive or easily frustrated
    • Have less parental involvement or having issues at home
    • Think badly of others
    • Have difficulty following rules
    • View violence in a positive way
    • Have friends who bully others

    Remember, those who bully others do not need to be stronger or bigger than those they bully. The power imbalance can come from a number of sources—popularity, strength, cognitive ability—and children who bully may have more than one of these characteristics.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” top_padding=”2%” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]Source: StopBullying.gov[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”35″][vc_column_text]Who Is at Risk? | Bullying Blogs | Bullying Resources | No Bullies Allowed Initiative | Anti Bullying | Bullying Prevention Association of America[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_raw_js]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[/vc_raw_js][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • The Roles Kids Play in Bullying

    The Roles Kids Play in Bullying

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    The Roles Kids Play in Bullying

    [/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”Full Width Line” line_thickness=”2″ divider_color=”extra-color-gradient-1″ custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]There are many roles that kids can play. Kids can bully others, they can be bullied, or they may witness bullying. When kids are involved in bullying, they often play more than one role. Sometimes kids may both be bullied and bully others or they may witness other kids being bullied. It is important to understand the multiple roles kids play in order to effectively prevent and respond to bullying[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Importance of Not Labeling Kids

    When referring to a bullying situation, it is easy to call the kids who bully others “bullies” and those who are targeted “victims,” but this may have unintended consequences. When children are labeled as “bullies” or “victims” it may:

    • Send the message that the child’s behavior cannot change
    • Fail to recognize the multiple roles children might play in different bullying situations
    • Disregard other factors contributing to the behavior such as peer influence or school climate

    Instead of labeling the children involved, focus on the behavior. For instance:

    • Instead of calling a child a “bully,” refer to them as “the child who bullied”
    • Instead of calling a child a “victim,” refer to them as “the child who was bullied”
    • Instead of calling a child a “bully/victim,” refer to them as “the child who was both bullied and bullied others.”

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    Kids Involved in Bullying

    The roles kids play in bullying are not limited to those who bully others and those who are bullied. Some researchers talk about the “circle of bullying” to define both those directly involved in bullying and those who actively or passively assist the behavior or defend against it. Direct roles include:

    • Kids who Bully: These children engage in bullying behavior towards their peers. There are many risk factors that may contribute to the child’s involvement in the behavior. Often, these students require support to change their behavior and address any other challenges that may be influencing their behavior.
    • Kids who are Bullied: These children are the targets of bullying behavior. Some factors put children at more risk of being bullied, but not all children with these characteristics will be bullied. Sometimes, these children may need help learning how to respond to bullying.

    Even if a child is not directly involved in bullying, they may be contributing to the behavior. Witnessing the behavior may also affect the child, so it is important for them to learn what they should do when they see bullying happen. Roles kids play when they witness bullying include:

    • Kids who Assist: These children may not start the bullying or lead in the bullying behavior, but serve as an “assistant” to children who are bullying. These children may encourage the bullying behavior and occasionally join in.
    • Kids who Reinforce: These children are not directly involved in the bullying behavior but they give the bullying an audience. They will often laugh or provide support for the children who are engaging in bullying. This may encourage the bullying to continue.
    • Outsiders: These children remain separate from the bullying situation. They neither reinforce the bullying behavior nor defend the child being bullied. Some may watch what is going on but do not provide feedback about the situation to show they are on anyone’s side. Even so, providing an audience may encourage the bullying behavior.
      • These kids often want to help, but don’t know how. Learn how to be “more than a bystander.”
    • Kids who Defend: These children actively comfort the child being bullied and may come to the child’s defense when bullying occurs.

    Most kids play more than one role in bullying over time. In some cases, they may be directly involved in bullying as the one bullying others or being bullied and in others they may witness bullying and play an assisting or defending role. Every situation is different. Some kids are both bullied and bully others. It is important to note the multiple roles kids play, because:

    • Those who are both bullied and bully others may be at more risk for negative outcomes, such as depression or suicidal ideation.
    • It highlights the need to engage all kids in prevention efforts, not just those who are known to be directly involved.

    [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” top_padding=”2%” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” shape_type=””][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid”][vc_column_text]Source: StopBullying.gov[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”35″][vc_column_text]The Roles Kids Play in Bullying | Bullying Blogs | Bullying Resources | No Bullies Allowed Initiative | Anti Bullying | Bullying Prevention Association of America[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row type=”in_container” full_screen_row_position=”middle” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″ shape_divider_position=”bottom” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ column_link_target=”_self” column_shadow=”none” column_border_radius=”none” width=”1/1″ tablet_width_inherit=”default” tablet_text_alignment=”default” phone_text_alignment=”default” column_border_width=”none” column_border_style=”solid” bg_image_animation=”none”][vc_raw_js]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[/vc_raw_js][/vc_column][/vc_row]

  • What Is Bullying

    What Is Bullying

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    What Is Bullying

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    Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have serious, lasting problems.

    In order to be considered bullying, the behavior must be aggressive and include:

    • An Imbalance of Power: Kids who bully use their power—such as physical strength, access to embarrassing information, or popularity—to control or harm others. Power imbalances can change over time and in different situations, even if they involve the same people.
    • Repetition: Bullying behaviors happen more than once or have the potential to happen more than once.

    Bullying includes actions such as making threats, spreading rumors, attacking someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a group on purpose.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Types

    There are three types of bullying:

    • Verbal is saying or writing mean things. Verbal bullying includes:
      • Teasing
      • Name-calling
      • Inappropriate sexual comments
      • Taunting
      • Threatening to cause harm
    • Social, sometimes referred to as relational, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
      • Leaving someone out on purpose
      • Telling other children not to be friends with someone
      • Spreading rumors about someone
      • Embarrassing someone in public
    • Physical involves hurting a person’s body or possessions. Physical bullying includes:
      • Hitting/kicking/pinching
      • Spitting
      • Tripping/pushing
      • Taking or breaking someone’s things
      • Making mean or rude hand gestures

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    Where and When It Happens

    It can occur during or after school hours. While most reported bullying happens in the school building, a significant percentage also happens in places like on the playground or the bus. It can also happen travelling to or from school, in the youth’s neighborhood, or on the Internet.[/vc_column_text][divider line_type=”No Line” custom_height=”40″][vc_column_text]

    Frequency

    There are two sources of federally collected data on youth bullying:

    • The 2014–2015 School Crime Supplement – PDF (National Center for Education Statistics and Bureau of Justice Statistics) indicates that, nationwide, about 21% of students ages 12-18 experienced bullying.
    • The 2015 Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) indicates that, nationwide, 20% of students in grades 9–12 report being bullied on school property in the 12 months preceding the survey.

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